Archive for March, 2006

Inevitably in life, we will face disapproval or rejection from others. It might be a family member, friend, employer, or even a stranger. They might disagree with the way we live our lives, the decisions we make for ourselves, or even who we are. They might belittle our dreams, criticize our goals, or make hurtful comments that reveal a low opinion of us. These experiences can be quite painful, because we all want to be liked and accepted. We all want to be supported and nurtured and loved by those around us.

Have you ever had someone shoot down your dreams? I was talking to a friend last week and she was upset that her husband (and most of her family members, come to think of it) belittle her dreams and scoff when she tries to share them. How heartbreaking! And I’m sure she’s not the only one who has experienced it. I’ve been there, and perhaps you have too.