Monday, June 2nd, 2008
If you are working with the Law of Attraction but having less than stellar results, don’t fear! It’s very likely that you need only tweak what you’re doing in order to become successful. Due to the nature of our current culture, our rat-race mentality, and our “logical” upbringing, there are some thinking habits we may need to override in order to be more successful. When addressed, it may be possible to go from absolute failure to powerful success with the Law of Attraction. Let’s look at a common mistake we make when using the Law of Attraction to manifest our desires.
It is important to understand this point. The universe will give you what you desire! Here’s where things get tricky. We are used to knowing that in order to buy our dream house, we need a lot of money. In order to lose weight, we need to change our eating habits. In order to get from here to there, we have to pass through the middle. This is where the Law of Attraction comes into play. The Law is responsible for handling the “HOW” in your manifestation. Only the end result, your desire itself, is what matters. It may come as a surprise then to find out that many people start by trying to manifest the “HOW” for their actual desire.
The Law of Attraction works by the power of your thoughts and emotions in making manifest your desires. Therefore, when you focus on your actual desire, you feel the emotions of excitement, happiness, expectancy, etc. These are what empower your intention and allow manifestation to occur. When focus is placed on the middle area, the stepping stone between where you are and where you truly want to be, it is very difficult to build the necessary emotions and energy to actually attract your target.
Therefore, by simply correcting the mistake of properly identifying your desires and not the stepping stones, you will become vastly more successful in your attempts.
The universe is made of vibrating energy. Anything is possible. It is not your concern to trouble over how it may be possible for something to happen. All you need to do is visualize your desire come to life. Feel the energy, daydream away, and allow your intent to magnetize your desire. Let the universe worry about how to make it happen – you focus on what you want to happen! The simplicity is such that we miss it. Our minds have difficulty adjusting to the need for focusing directly on the end result without any thought or worry over the in-between. Learn to overcome this weakness and you will succeed.
So to summarize, make sure that you identify your true desires, and that you are not in fact trying to manifest a stepping stone. The shift to working on your actual desire, no matter how far fetched it might seem, will allow you to generate the necessary energy to manifest it into being. The universe will then find a way to make it occur, and it will manifest for you. The more detached you remain from the means, the more quickly and easily the ends will manifest. Good luck!
Wendy
CreationThoughts.com
WingsfortheHeart.com
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Saturday, May 31st, 2008
Have you ever found yourself hanging in limbo, waiting for something you desperately want - no, NEED - to manifest, but it’s just not happening no matter what you do?
You visualize, you imagine, you affirm, you believe - and yet it’s still not coming. So you visualize a bit harder, more often, more intensely. You keep believing with all of your might that it’s coming soon. You start seeing “signs” and synchronicities everywhere you go - and you are SO SURE it’s getting ready to break through - but it STILL doesn’t happen!
Day after day you keep wondering if there’s something else you’re supposed to do to make it happen, some magical incantation you can recite to hurry things along. You wonder if you’re doing something to hold it back without meaning to, so you start analyzing your every move, every affirmation, every picture in your mind. But all of it seems to be in order. You can’t think of a single thing that you might be doing wrong.
This is a familiar situation to most conscious creators! In fact, you are probably nodding your head vigorously as you read this. Most of us have been there at least once or twice - some of us a lot more than that. 
It’s a frustrating place to be, that’s for sure. But what is really happening when you find yourself stuck like that?
In my experience, it usually means that I’m trying to hurry things along. Either I really need what I’m trying to attract, or I’m depending on it to arrive by a certain time or I will face possible negative consequences. Not surprisingly, the longer it seems to take, the more frustrated I get. You can probably identify with that.
But if there is one thing I’ve learned along my journey in conscious creation, it’s that you can’t hurry manifestation. (Or love. LOL 
) The very mind-set of “NEEDING” something to happen by a certain date will most certainly delay it. Need, desperation, frustration, exasperation, agitation, stress, disappointment - they are all SURE precursors to blockages.
When you find yourself in this type of situation, there is only ONE thing to do: LET GO.
Be okay with not getting what you want right away. Be okay with things staying as they are.
I know that’s easier said than done, but strangely there is also a certain sense of peace that comes along with giving up the fight. When you’ve been trying to FORCE something to happen quickly, you are expending a LOT of mental and emotional energy! As a result you end up feeling worn out and depleted.
On the other hand, surrendering to the universe’s higher wisdom and letting go inspires a sense of calm detachment and peace in the present moment. You realize that you’re still okay, even without this thing you want so desperately.
Letting go does not mean you won’t get what you want. It means you are choosing to know that you’re okay without it right NOW. It means that the arrival of it will be a great bonus, but your inner peace and well-being are not dependent upon it.
More often than not, we look to our outer circumstances to determine whether our intentions are working or not, but the outer clues don’t always tell the full story. What we can’t see is all of the energy and magnetism we’ve already built up in the invisible. We can’t see that our desire is getting ready to break through - and it WILL break through, unless we begin creating blockages that prevent it from doing so.
Yes, our very feelings of desperation and frustration are what create the blockages! The longer we stay in that frustrated mind-set, the longer we’re going to delay the arrival of what we want.
The next time you find yourself hanging in limbo between wanting something desperately and noticing you do not yet have it - STOP and LET GO. Just let go. Turn it over to the universe. Be okay with not having it. You can still visualize having it, you can still believe it’s coming. But DETACH from any need to have it RIGHT NOW.
In my experience, this is often the missing key needed to pull it into physical reality.
Wendy
CreationThoughts.com
WingsfortheHeart.com
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