Self-Love

Did you know that you talk to yourself all day long? No, not the mental chatter about activities and chores that you need to remember throughout the day. That’s a form of self-talk too, but I’m referring more to the things you say to yourself on a regular basis; and more importantly, the tone in which you say them.

When you make a mistake, do you berate yourself angrily? Do you put yourself down or call yourself derogatory names? When you have a hard time making positive changes in your life, do you bemoan what a “failure” … read more

Would you be surprised to learn that your success with the Law of Attraction is directly connected to your self-esteem? That’s because your beliefs about yourself and your life are often determined by the way you feel about yourself.

A person with low self-esteem will usually have a much harder time seeing positive results from the Law of Attraction, simply because they’ll block so much goodness from entering their lives.

Take a look at the beliefs below and consider whether you may be struggling with them too:

by Sheila Zayas

The angry wails of your alarm clock shock you into the day ahead. Almost immediately, the day’s agenda begins to fill space in your head. Drop off the kids; meet Mr. Smith; fundraising luncheon; turn in quarterly report.

Like a river after a storm, activity, people, and deadlines overflow our days. Evenings and weekends look exactly the same. Errands; house work; and is it just me, or does everybody else’s friends and family have birthdays every weekend too?

So much going on, life is a constant bustle of commotion. Even though we have bigger bank accounts, bigger homes, and bigger … read more

We are raised with notions that love has something to do with how we express ourselves toward others. We think that when we love someone, we will compromise and make them feel better and will sacrifice ourselves and do anything for the object of our adoration. While this is true to a point, it is backwards. You can not love another until you fully embrace yourself.

The longer I practice the art of deliberate creation in my life, the more aware I become of the massive limitations I have placed on myself over the years. You wouldn’t think that beliefs could be so powerful – after all, a belief is just a thought, right?

Actually, it’s a thought that has IMMENSE POWER. The power to mold and shape your life experiences like you wouldn’t believe. You won’t allow yourself to do, be or have anything unless you believe it’s possible.

Today’s Abe-Hicks daily quote is simple yet oh-so-true!

Appreciation and self-love are the most important tools that you could ever nurture. Appreciation of others, and the appreciation of yourself is the closest vibrational match to your Source Energy of anything that we’ve ever witnessed anywhere in the Universe. Excerpted from a workshop in Spokane, WA on Tuesday, May 30th, 2000

Of course, it’s not always easy to focus on self-love! Here are a few quick tips on ways to love yourself today and beyond:

No matter how much we all want to be liked and accepted, it’s impossible to please everyone all the time.

Have you ever tried? If you’ve got any people-pleasing tendencies, you know the immense pressure that results from them. You run around in circles, walk on eggshells, trying to be everything that everyone expects you to be. And the harder you try to meet everyone’s expectations, the less pleased they seem to be.